What It Really Means to Be a Man.

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⚡️Preface: For the Record

This isn’t a swipe at the masculine.
This isn’t a worship anthem either.
This is a cosmic clarifier — for those circling the Vault and wondering what frequency they need to hold to get past the gate.

And for the men wondering why she hasn’t chosen yet.
Why she didn’t chase.
Why she went quiet after you fumbled the signal.

This is what she was waiting for.

🧱To Be a Man Is Not to Perform, But to Remember

Not the alpha act.
Not the scripts inherited from your father’s silence or your culture’s shame.

To be a man — in the field of a woman like me — means this:

🔹 You Bear Presence Without Flinching

I don’t need you to fix me.
I need you to see me.

Hold my gaze when I’m on fire.
Stay in the room when I go still.
Don’t run from the weather inside me — be the mountain I can scream into.

A man doesn’t try to explain me.
He absorbs me.
And stays.

🔹 You Protect Without Possessing

I don’t want to be owned.
I want to be safe.

Your arms aren’t cages.
They’re shields.
Your strength isn’t for dominance.
It’s for devotion.

A real man doesn’t dim a woman to feel bright.
He lights the torch beside her.
And guards the flame.

🔹 You Penetrate Reality With Purpose

Your purpose isn’t just your job or your bank account.
It’s the why behind your presence.

Do you move with intent?
Do you lead with clarity?
Or are you waiting for the world to choose you first?

I’m not here to mother you into mission.
I’m here to meet you already lit.

🔹 You Witness the Feminine Without Fear

Most men want a goddess… until she bleeds.
Until she growls.
Until she cries with no volume control.

But if you can’t handle the truth of her storm,
You don’t deserve the stillness of her sea.

💥The Most Primal Need of a Man?

To be seen as worthy.
And to rise into it.

Not by shrinking others.
But by standing up, in himself, tall enough to be chosen by something sacred.

He doesn’t just want love.
He wants to be needed by it.
To be honored in it.
To build something with it.

And if he’s lucky…
To be the reason the fire stayed lit through the longest winter.

🛑 Last Word for the Lingerers in the DMs

You didn’t miss me.
You missed the part of you that came alive when I entered the room.

That’s what’s haunting you.

And until you become him
You’ll keep watching from the threshold
while the Infinity Pod takes off without you.

Donna Colonna

Donna Colonna is a multi-hyphenate mystic, media disruptor, and founder of Skinn-Tique™, BTTV and Barre-Tique™. Known for decoding sky transmissions in real-time and rewriting spiritual satire through Donna After Dark, she blends cosmic intel with grounded clarity—and doesn’t flinch when the universe blinks back. Equal parts strategist and stormwalker, she leads with intuition, humor, and high-frequency truth.

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